First Impression
A first impression is an initial mental picture that memories are based on. First impressions are formed by a persons first look or encounter of another person, a place or a thing. To form a first impression on someone, one must make sure that they are enthusiastic, open to conversation and have a good appearance.
When first meeting someone, it is important to give a good impression. To do this, it is essential that an appropriate body language and attitude is remembered. This means that one should smile, look someone in the eye and shake hands. Slouching should be avoided, as should appearing too stiff or intimidated. Trying to remain relaxed and acting naturally can make a great first impression. Additionally, what one wears is also important. Dressing uncomfortably and untidy can put the other person off, so when meeting someone for the first time, one needs to be sure to be well presented.
The first impression of a place can be very influential in determining how a person feels about it. People make assumptions very quickly, so it is vital that a place appears welcoming and clean. Cluttered, dirty and disorganised places give out a negative sense, and make people seem unwelcoming. Even if the place is actually organised and attractive, if people do not think it is, they will automatically assume there is something wrong.
In many cases, people form their first impressions of events such as concerts, parties and other social occasions by the people attending them. If the people attending the event are smiling, having a good time and are generally friendly, it can lead to a great first impression of the event. A negative first impression can be caused by people standing around without conversing, inattentive hosts and people looking bored.
It is also important to remember that people sometimes judge something based on what their first impressions are, even if their instinct is wrong. It is important to remember that second and third impressions can often be formed, which are based on a better interpretation of the person or thing. If a second impression is made, it can be beneficial to remember that it was just a wrong first impression.
Finally, it is important to remember that people can and will make mistakes when forming their first impressions. Everyone is different, with each person having a different viewpoint, so it is essential to be open to differences. People can come to understand more when they get to know a person.
